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Post by twingo on Oct 23, 2009 11:41:25 GMT -5
I always think of the song ''If you love somebody set them free". If this is what Andy wants, this is fine with me. If I love somebody and they take a decision that's best for them but not for me, I respect their decision: if that someone is happy, then I am happy too because they are happy.
I don't want to give any advice, but we all should learn to love our own self, before we can love anyone else.
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Post by LiveWire83 on Oct 23, 2009 11:49:05 GMT -5
That is very true. Now I see how stupid I have been all this time. Do you know what?. I give up.
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Post by twingo on Oct 23, 2009 11:56:12 GMT -5
Yes, I think so. The ISBN numbers are identical, the size matches and the date of issue too. So it should be the right one!
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Post by Thundergirl on Oct 23, 2009 13:04:43 GMT -5
I got it today.
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Post by nooks on Oct 23, 2009 13:22:18 GMT -5
What happened to the words like "never say never" and many others?. It's been a long time since Andy was, I believe, booted and so he's had a lot of time to think and more importantly he's seen the direction DD are going in and it's just not for him. Besides, I for one don't want to see Andy being dragged down. If you look at it another way, Andy is communicating with his fans and if he was still in DD, we would hear absolutely nothing from him. I don't know about anyone else but I know what I prefer.
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Post by LiveWire83 on Oct 23, 2009 13:43:11 GMT -5
Andy is communicating with his fans That was long time ago. Where is he now?.I will it tell you: at home with his beloved Tracey, who, by the way, will be the person who will buy his future albums from now on, not me. And where is the gig in September among other broken promises?.Think twice about that. I am sorry, but I start to think the person who I admire is as liar as the rest and he is playing with me too. And If I do not permit that to the rest, I am not going to permit that to him either, because, who is suffering with all this is only me, while they are at home and happy, even, it is probably that they are laughing thanks to my suffering. I do not permit it. No way.
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Post by fan on Oct 23, 2009 14:28:39 GMT -5
Yes, I think so. The ISBN numbers are identical, the size matches and the date of issue too. So it should be the right one! thanks a lot Twingo
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Post by twingo on Oct 23, 2009 14:40:44 GMT -5
You need some camomile Gema. And why are you still whining about his beloved Tracey, shouldn't you maybe be happy for him that he's been having somebody beside him for all these years? And where is the gig in September? Have you already forgotten that he had a serious heart problem in July? Maybe you wanted him to make a concert in September and maybe risk to die in the middle of the concert? But who would have cared? You certainly don't. It's not that 'now you see how stupid you have been all this time', if you keep writing stuff like that, it shows that for you there is still a long way to go.
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Post by nooks on Oct 23, 2009 15:08:13 GMT -5
After all that Andy's had to put up with in the last couple of months, I hope he and Tracey are now able to laugh and enjoy themselves because Andy's life is more important than music.
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Post by LiveWire83 on Oct 23, 2009 15:13:49 GMT -5
I am still whining about his beloved Tracey, because I am sure there is a cause behind all this that has to do with her. As I said long time ago, I am tired of her whims, and of her attitude of "now I share you with your fans, now I order you to stay hidden at home, only for me".
No, I do not want to see him dying in the middle of a concert, but I do not want either a broken promise and a lack of explanation one month later. I ALSO HAVE A HEART THAT IS SUFFERING A LOT. What has he been doing since september?. Why does nobody say nothing?.Where is him?. Why does someone enter his page, and then, the silent for days?. I do not need an anonimous, entering his Myspace,just to change the date. I need a blog written by him to hear "Hello, everybody. I am fine. I know I promised a gig in September, but it was not possible due to this or that. " And the most important thing: I do not need 24.000 remixes of the same song again and again.
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Post by twingo on Oct 23, 2009 16:24:49 GMT -5
After all that Andy's had to put up with in the last couple of months, I hope he and Tracey are now able to laugh and enjoy themselves because Andy's life is more important than music. Amen to that Vicky.
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Post by nooks on Oct 23, 2009 16:40:47 GMT -5
;D
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Post by LiveWire83 on Oct 24, 2009 3:31:25 GMT -5
I'm not asking for a concert. I am claiming to know about him with more regularity and frequency. I also have a heart, a heart that is suffering a lot with all this. Nor is it fair for me to be happy only from time to time. In the last three years, I have been happy one month yes,and the following four no, and the following month yes. If he does not want or he can not continue doing concerts,it is OK, but at least, he should allow us to know about him with some regularity, only for that : to know he is fine. With that I will be more than happy. So I'm not asking for music, because, of course, his life is most important for me.What I am asking for is to know about him, making music or not, with more regularity.
On the other hand, a heart attack does not prevent you to use the computer to communicate with people.
I am not doctor, but I supose that if you can travel to Newton Abbot (England) to see the new house of your older daugther or to be in all the parties of "Rock Nights" as guest, you can also to be in front of a PC, since the first things have more risk for you.
In other words, I do not think this whole time he has been at home, resting and reading a book quietly, and following a healthy diet without excesses. I'm a fan, but I refuse to be a blind and ignorant stupid.
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Post by LiveWire83 on Oct 24, 2009 4:22:12 GMT -5
Moreover, I disagree with his way to communicate his intention of not returning a third time to DD through a new special chapter in a book that we have to buy again.
Everytime he has something to say, is he going to add more and more new chapters to the book, to make us buy it again and again? Why did not he say it before in the previous version of the book?. Why this new version of the book is only available in England for British fans?.The rest of us, do not we have the right to know it?. Why this kind of things, like the reason of his departure and how the things happened, are said in a book that he put on sale? Why not in a statement, free, on a website?. Why did he wait to tell it in a book that costs money to his fans after months of speculations and suffering?.
There are things that I will never understand, despite the love that I can feel inside.I suppose the love is not always blind.
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Post by Thundergirl on Oct 24, 2009 12:20:10 GMT -5
There is no thought or decision that Andy takes toward to DD that is not after a deep reflection and suffered. I believe that is him in first person what is more suffering in this moment but perhaps is for him also arrived the moment to feel himself really free and this he is mostly feeling it sharing it with all of us from when he has written this new chapter of his biography! He was up to a reaction from Duran Duran when he published his biography last year, reaction that there was not. And he waited for a reaction and a signal from DD during this his convalescence but it is evident that this time there was not even a reaction. Andy has harshly understood that there is no love from Nick, and that each in that band doesn't have the courage or the interest to let Nick and the management to hear their own voices. Andy has not voluntarily left DD and if already Nick were annoyed from the depression of Andy for the mourning of his dad, let's show up us if would accept that Andy produced and only played in the studio and no playing to the gigs after he had the heart attack! It is for a long time by now evident to everybody that what remains of DD it's a band of men without heart and without feelings of friendship but only a cold band and also interested only in the money and the fame at all costs to also walk on the dead bodies. Always to confirmation of this to throw on them the shame in these days there are the news that A-HA a famous Norwegian band will separate after this last tour for theirs recent last new album together and among the motives there is also the bad health of their keyboarder and best friend, Mags!
I will stay faithful to my Andy as always and I will follow him whatever thing he will do as I have always done.
Let 'em burn away, Andy, because only them always lost you, me never!
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